Celebrating Yourself: Louis' Story

I would like to share with you all the stories that have gathered from my experiences as an LGBTQ+ person and the beginning of my journey. My name is Louis and I come from the vibrant country of El Salvador. However, life brought me to Taiwan and I have been living here for more than 10 years. I initially came to Taiwan as a student, but then fate prepared another plan for me. I have decided to continue my life and work in Taiwan, surrounded by many passions that ignite my soul, including music, which is very special to me.

 

Growing up LGBTQ+ in Latin America was challenging and scary. The lack of acceptance across the country cast a shadow of doubt and fear. It made me wonder about people’s reactions and whether I would be able to find a safe place for myself. Concealing my true identity became a necessity. It forced me to suppress my thoughts and feelings. I was always aware of who I was. Dating became an impossible endeavor because I could not accept myself in an environment that refused to accept me for who I was.

 

Social attitudes towards LGBTQ+ people had a profound impact on me during my formative years. Although I understood that being part of the LGBTQ+ community was acceptable, being surrounded by hostility and hatred towards LGTBQ+ people was difficult to deal with. The constant struggle with what was inside of me often led to moments of self-loathing. I searched for a different reality and tried to look beyond my true identity. Then, Taiwan slowly appeared on my path and slowly broke down the walls I had built.

 

As an LGBTQ+ person, I have faced many experiences and challenges that have tested my patience. I have had to think carefully about every word I said, because I was afraid that they might lead to bullying or teasing. In difficult times, all I could do was comfort myself. I put on a mask of happiness, always acting positively, because it seemed that there were no words that could describe the sadness or stress I sometimes felt, except for the fact that I was hiding those feelings.

 

However, during my struggles, I was lucky enough to meet some special friends who always spread positive energy and were open-minded. Their presence made my journey brighter. Since coming to Taiwan, I have received the support I needed and the acceptance of my true self. Artists, singers, and musicians have played a major role in boosting my confidence. Their work has created a safe and empowering space for me to be my true self.

 

My LGBTQ+ identity has left an indelible mark on my life and career. When the truth about me remained hidden, it was still challenging to connect with my friends. They sensed the emotional distance I felt. However, as I slowly opened up, my inner confidence gradually emerged, becoming apparent to those around me. In my professional life, I have remained cautious and inclusive, but I am grateful to have caring and tolerant colleagues who have created a diverse and inclusive workplace.

 

I currently live in El Salvador. There is still a lot of work to be done to build support for the LGBTQ+ community. Bullying still casts a shadow over many, but a ray of hope is beginning to shine through young people who are open-minded and fearlessly stand up for what's right. In contrast, Taiwan serves as a beacon of diversity, where people are respectful and friendly to one another regardless of their orientation or sexual identity.

 

To promote LGBTQ+ advocacy, El Salvador urgently needs inclusive policies and actions. The lack of appropriate legal protections poses countless risks, particularly in areas such as the recognition of same-sex couples and workplace rights. It is heartbreaking to see couples denied the basic right to cohabit because they do not have legal recognition.

 

Looking ahead, my hopes and aspirations for the LGBTQ+ community are far-reaching. I want to see a world where the LGBTQ+ community is fully integrated into society, where LGBTQ+ people can be publicly out without fear of being judged or harmed. I sincerely hope that these things will be normal and safe, while heterosexual couples do not have to worry about these things, and their relationships are not criticized or seen as abnormal. Therefore, LGBTQ+ relationships should have the same rights and freedoms.

I think it's important to find a group of friends who you trust and can accept you for who you are, because when you feel loved and supported, you can grow with more understanding, love yourself, and be more able to express your feelings and give love to others.

Speaking up to protect and help others when LGBTQ+ people are bullied, discriminated against or slandered is important because ignoring and treating it like a joke or ignoring it doesn't help. Many people don't even take the time to reflect on the negative impacts of their actions. Starting conversations and educating people is a great start to creating a more inclusive and accepting society.

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